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Surrogacy Lawyer

Trusted Surrogacy Attorneys Serving California, New York, Illinois, Washington, Arizona, and Oklahoma

Build Your Family with Confidence and Legal Clarity

Are you thinking about becoming a parent through surrogacy? Whether you're working with a surrogacy agency, planning an independent journey, or need help understanding complex laws in your state, the experienced attorneys at Tsong Law Group are here for you. 


We provide legal guidance to intended parents and surrogates in: CA, NY, IL, WA, AZ, and OK

Our team offers:

Who We Support

Legal guidance tailored to your journey.

First-time intended parents

Looking for clarity, reassurance, and step-by-step legal guidance throughout the surrogacy process.

Individuals or couples with past surrogacy setbacks

Seeking stronger legal safeguards and a more secure experience this time around.

Independent (DIY) journeys

Where no agency is involved and legal protection, coordination, and compliance are essential.

LGBTQ+ families

Who need clear, affirming legal pathways to establish and protect full parental rights.

International intended parents

Requiring cross-border legal coordination, state compliance, and secure recognition of parentage.

Legal services we provide in your surrogacy journey

  • Surrogacy contracts (intended parent + surrogate representation) 

  • Legal clearance letters for IVF clinics 

  • Pre-birth orders (PBO) and post-birth parentage judgments 

  • Confirmatory and second-parent adoptions 

  • Multistate coordination for complex or cross-border cases 

  • Independent journey support: contract drafting and legal strategy 

  • LGBTQ+ family protections 

  • Contract dispute prevention and resolution

Atty Ralph Tsong Surrogacy Leader

Led by Ralph M. Tsong
Distinguished in the field of Surrogacy Law

With over 25 years of legal experience and fellowships in both the Academy of Adoption & Assisted  Reproduction Attorneys (AAAA) and the Academy of California Adoption and  ART Lawyers (ACAL), Ralph brings unmatched authority and care to your  family-building journey.


Credentials and Recognition:

✔ Super Lawyer 2023-2025
✔ SEEDS + ABA ART Committee Member
✔ Former legal advisor to U.S. and state agencies
✔ Experienced with independent, agency, and international cases

Testimonials

Maggie

We are so glad we used Tsong Law Group for our surrogacy journey. They helped make what can be a complicated process understandable and were there for us every step of the way. I'd recommend Ralph to anyone and everyone that needs a lawyer for their surrogacy journey.

Douglas

It's a common dilemma: to need legal help but don't know an attorney or where to turn. This is stressful and prompts thoughts of super-high legal fees from someone who doesn't seem interested in your case. Our experience with Ralph Tsong at Tsong Law Group could not have been more different. We used Ralph for a surrogacy legal contract and the process was SUPER straightforward, transparent, and helpful. There were no surprises, his fees were exactly as stated upfront, and Ralph is very pleasant to work with.

Tanya

Great experience working with Tsong's team on our first surrogacy journey.  The service is excellent, with very timely response and update. The cost is reasonable. We are also using Tsong Law for our second journey, and recommended to one of our friends, who also are very satisfied with their service.

FAQ

How long does it take for the legal process in surrogacy?

The first step usually takes 1-2 weeks to draft the surrogacy agreement.  After that, we expect to hear back from the gestational carrier's attorney in about a week. Following this, we enter a phase of negotiating and finalizing the agreement, which involves some back-and-forth communication. It's important to note that in some states, documents need to be signed in the presence of a notary public.  This extra step may add some time to the overall process, as coordinating schedules and getting documents notarized can introduce some variability in how long it takes.

What are red flags for intended parents who seek out independent journeys?

1. A surrogate who is in another country. In most cases this is a hard to stop. 2. A surrogate who has been rejected by agencies. Agencies are knowledgeable about what is required for a surrogate to pass medical screening. If a surrogate applied with agencies and has been rejected, it is likely they will be rejected by your clinic. 3. When it sounds too good to be true. Surrogates are in high demand and there’s enough information about compensation for a surrogate to know the market rate. While surrogates give discounts to family members and friends, beware of the unknown candidate who offers to do it for free or well below market.

Can Intended Parents write off surrogacy expenses as medical expenses on their taxes?

The IRS ruled that expenses involving egg donation, IVF procedures, and gestational surrogacy incurred by third parties are not eligible for medical expenses. Only procedures on the taxpayer's body were viewed as deductible medical expenses.

What are things I should be looking into when I review an agency agreement?

When reviewing an agency agreement, it's essential to consider various aspects. When selecting an agency, you'll be presented with a contract that outlines the terms of your partnership.  Here are some key factors to keep in mind: 1. Agency Fee: The agency fee is a critical consideration. You should determine when it's due and whether it's refundable. Some agencies charge at the match confirmation stage, while others collect it beforehand. 2. Rematch Fees: Be aware of potential rematch fees. The reasons for these fees can vary significantly. 3. Duration of the Contract: Some agencies may charge a fee to extend their services beyond a certain period. This timeframe should be reasonable to avoid excessive costs. 4. Services Provided: Pay close attention to the scope of services covered by the agreement and what isn't included.

What happens if the surrogate wants to keep the baby?

In California, surrogates would typically lose in court if they attempt to win and keep the baby. This outcome is based on the 1993 California Supreme Court case, Johnson v. Calvert, which dictates that courts should uphold the intent of the parties at the time they signed the surrogacy agreement. If a surrogate is determined to keep the baby and a judgment of parentage is in place, the hospital is likely to recognize the intended parents as legal parents, resulting in the child being taken away. In most cases, this judgment is obtained well before the surrogate's birth, and if the surrogate changes her mind afterward, the judgment specifies that the intended parents should take immediate custody of the child.

What happens if the intended parents divorce during a surrogacy journey?

In the event the intended parents divorce or separate and the surrogate is pregnant, the Gestational Surrogacy Agreement will continue as planned. Most agreements will say the custody rights to the child will be resolved by the agreement of intended parents or by a court of competent jurisdiction. The gestational carrier and/or her spouse will not have any parental rights or claim to the child if a separation or divorce occurs between the intended parents.

When should we be looking for a pre-birth order?

Pre-birth order states require a court to grant an order naming the intended parents as parents prior to the surrogate giving birth. If the surrogate is in a pre-birth order state, the intended parents' attorney typically starts the pre-birth order drafting between 13 and 20 weeks of pregnancy. The pre-birth order can take a couple months to be prepared, reviewed, signed by all parties, and then granted by the court.  You want to have sufficient time for the pre-birth order to be ready in case there is an early birth.

Do I need an escrow account for surrogacy?

California law requires that if there is an agent or agency assisting with the match, an escrow account or trust account is required. New York also requires an escrow account if the surrogate is compensated. Other states may also require escrow. In California, the trust account may not be held by the agent or agency, but by a bonded and licensed escrow company or an attorney. It is a good idea to have an escrow account when the surrogate is compensated. Disputes over nonpayment are one of the biggest reasons the parties go to court.

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10900 183rd St., Suite 270 Cerritos, CA 90703

Office Hours:

Monday - Friday

9 AM - 6 PM (PT)

Office Phone:

877-992-3678

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