
The Legal Foundation Every Intended Parent Needs
Are you preparing to welcome a child through surrogacy or assisted reproduction? Whether you're working with a gestational surrogate, using donor gametes, or navigating cross-border legal issues, the experienced attorneys at Tsong Law Group are here for you.
We provide legal guidance for Prebirth Orders and Parentage Actions in: CA, NY, IL, WA, AZ, and OK.
What We Do:
Who We Help
Legal care designed for your parenthood plan
First-time intended parents
Navigating surrogacy for the first time and needing clear, compassionate legal support every step of the way.
Individuals or couples with past surrogacy setbacks
Looking to avoid previous issues with stronger contracts and more proactive legal protections.
Independent (DIY) journeys
Pursuing surrogacy without an agency and needing trusted legal guidance to manage every detail.
LGBTQ+ families
Seeking inclusive legal strategies to confirm parentage and secure long-term family protections.
International intended parents
Needing experienced legal coordination across borders to ensure valid recognition in all jurisdictions.
How We Support Your Parentage Process
Drafting and reviewing surrogacy contracts for both intended parents and surrogates
Prebirth orders (PBOs) and post-birth judgments to legally establish parentage
LGBTQ+ parentage and second-parent adoptions tailored to your family structure
Cross-border coordination for multistate and international parentage recognition
Legal clearance letters for IVF clinics to begin the medical process
Dispute prevention and resolution during or after the surrogacy journey
Support for independent journeys, including custom contracts and legal strategy

Led by Ralph M. Tsong —
Distinguished in the field of Surrogacy Law
With over 25 years of legal experience and fellowships in both the Academy of Adoption & Assisted Reproduction Attorneys (AAAA) and the Academy of California Adoption and ART Lawyers (ACAL), Ralph brings unmatched authority and care to your family-building journey.
Credentials and Recognition:
✔ Super Lawyer 2023-2025
✔ SEEDS + ABA ART Committee Member
✔ Former legal advisor to U.S. and state agencies
✔ Experienced with independent, agency, and international cases
Testimonials
Grant
We worked with the team at Tsong Law twice now, the first time was a smooth experience with no challenges. The second time was going well until one month before delivery and the same state we had previously worked with decided to no longer accept surrogacy contracts. Tsong law group let us know as soon as things started to go sideways, and had a backup plan ready to go. Through their tireless efforts, they pushed through a brand new parentage order in a new state, and delivered the new order to us with days to spare before baby was due. we highly recommended Tsong for any family practice needs as they are a dedicated team.
Nadia
Tsong Law Group is absolutely amazing! Ralph and Cindy are so knowledgeable, effective, informative, patient and are great at communicating from start to finish. I didn’t feel rushed or lost as they helped guide me throughout my process. I would definitely recommend them. Thank you Ralph and Cindy for everything!
Rykia
I cannot express how grateful I am for the outstanding support I received from Ralph Tsong at Tsong Law Group for my surrogacy legal counsel! He took the time to answer all my questions immediately, making the negotiation process smooth and stress-free. I highly recommend Tsong Law Group for anyone seeking surrogacy assistance.
FAQ
How long does it take for the legal process in surrogacy?
The first step usually takes 1-2 weeks to draft the surrogacy agreement. After that, we expect to hear back from the gestational carrier's attorney in about a week. Following this, we enter a phase of negotiating and finalizing the agreement, which involves some back-and-forth communication. It's important to note that in some states, documents need to be signed in the presence of a notary public. This extra step may add some time to the overall process, as coordinating schedules and getting documents notarized can introduce some variability in how long it takes.
When should we be looking for a pre-birth order?
Pre-birth order states require a court to grant an order naming the intended parents as parents prior to the surrogate giving birth. If the surrogate is in a pre-birth order state, the intended parents' attorney typically starts the pre-birth order drafting between 13 and 20 weeks of pregnancy. The pre-birth order can take a couple months to be prepared, reviewed, signed by all parties, and then granted by the court. You want to have sufficient time for the pre-birth order to be ready in case there is an early birth.
Can the father of my child be taken off the birth certificate if he agrees not to be a parent?
Public policy favors that children have two parents in their lives. So one parent, even if they have nothing to dow with the child, cannot voluntary lose his parentage status. The mother may have full physical or legal custody, but the child could still stand to inherit or gain social security benefits from a completely absent father. One way to remove the father is through adoption, where one person is willing to adopt the child and take the place of the father while the other parent remains on the birth certificate. However, with the costs of the home study procedure, this process can be expensive.Another way would be to do a parentage action, which would likely require a DNA test for one father to replace another
In what situations can California law be used in a surrogacy case?
The parties are free to use California law as a matter of choice of law in a contract. California courts have jurisdiction to determine legal parentage in surrogacy cases if either the intended parents or the surrogate resides in California. It is also possible to file a parentage action in a county for reasons such as place of embryo transfer, place of birth, and where the contracts are executed. Not all states accept a surrogacy parentage order from another state. So consult with a knowledgeable ART attorney about what choice of law is best for your situation.
Can intended parents force their surrogate to terminate her pregnancy?
No. Intended parents cannot force their surrogate to have an abortion as it is a violation of the surrogate's bodily autonomy. The surrogacy agreement will outline what the parties agree to regarding abortion and fetal reduction. The parties may agree that the surrogate will follow the intended parents' decision regarding abortion under certain circumstances while she maintains the right to preserve her own life and health. If the surrogate breaks the contract, she may liable under the contract, but ultimately the surrogate makes her own bodily decisions. It is important to go over these sections carefully with your lawyer before signing the contract.
What happens if the intended parents divorce during a surrogacy journey?
In the event the intended parents divorce or separate and the surrogate is pregnant, the Gestational Surrogacy Agreement will continue as planned. Most agreements will say the custody rights to the child will be resolved by the agreement of intended parents or by a court of competent jurisdiction. The gestational carrier and/or her spouse will not have any parental rights or claim to the child if a separation or divorce occurs between the intended parents.
Who is named on your child’s birth certificate if you do surrogacy as a same-sex couple?
If you're a same-sex couple using surrogacy, both of you can be listed as parents on your child’s birth certificate—whether that means two moms, two dads, or another configuration that reflects your family.
To make that happen, you’ll need to obtain a parentage judgment from the court. This is the legal order that directs the state to officially recognize both of you as parents from birth. Once the judgment is in place, your names appear on the birth certificate right away—without delays or extra legal forms down the line. Keep in mind that the process may vary by state. But with the right legal support, your family will be protected and fully recognized.
Does it matter whether I use donor gametes in my surrogacy journey?
In some states like Washington and California, it doesn’t matter. In other states like Illinois you need to have a genetic connection to be recognized as a parent.
What happens if the intended parents are not able to attend the birth of the child?
During the covid-19 pandemic, this became a commonplace occurrence for intended parents who were abroad. Assuming a judgment is in place, a hospital will recognize the intended parents as the parents. However, the intended parents are not present and have not advised the hospital, the child will be reported as abandoned to child protective services. The attorney for intended parents can prevent this by preparing a power of attorney giving another person (sometimes someone from the agency) the power to make medical decisions, complete the birth certificate and discharge the baby from the hospital. Intended Parents should be sure to let their attorney know if they can’t attend the birth so a power of attorney can be prepared.
What happens if a surrogate has a miscarriage?
When a surrogate is pregnant, she usually receives monthly compensation while pregnant. If she has a miscarriage, the compensation will stop. She does not need to pay it back if the miscarriage was not her fault. The agreement will describe what happens in the event of a miscarriage. If it is not the surrogate’s fault, she may receive a fee for the miscarriage and for subsequent surgery. Whether the contract ends or not also depends on the contract. In some contracts, the contract automatically terminate unless the parties agree to continue. In other contracts, a miscarriage does not cause the contract to terminate.
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